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Domestic violence affects men too. Are you being abused?

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence includes a range of behaviours: physical, psychological, sexual or financial abuse. It happens within intimate relationships as well as between family members. It forms a pattern of bullying and controlling behaviours. It is rarely a one-off event and it tends to get worse over time. Abusers can be very manipulative in the way they use their power and control over you and may blame you and other factors for their abusive behaviours.

What kind of person experiences domestic violence?

It can happen to anyone regardless of age, race, gender, sexuality, disability, wealth, gender identity and lifestyle. The Men's Advice Line speaks to straight and gay/bi male victims of domestic violence.

How do you know you are abused by your partner?

If you are forced to change the way you behave because you are frightened of your partner's reaction, it is likely you are  being abused. If you feel afraid, walking on eggshells, intimidated by your partner, it is likely you are being abused. If there is conflict in your relationship and your partner hurts you (physically, emotionally etc) it is likely you are being abused.

Is there help for male victims of domestic violence?

Yes. Find out how we can help you:

Straight male victims of domestic violence

Gay and bi male victims of domestic violence

Frontline workers

Have you recently called our helpline and spoken to one of our Advisors? Please complete this brief evaluation survey. It is very important to get your feedback and be able to show to our Funders how our service makes a difference to people like you. The survey is anonymous. Thank you for your time.

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What makes a good service for men who have experienced domestic abuse? Tell us what you think! We have been funded by the London Mayor’s Office for Policing and Crime to develop quality standards for domestic abuse services for men. As part of this, we want to hear from men who’ve experienced abuse about what they think services should look like. Please take the time to complete the anonymous survey below – your help is much appreciate and it will make a big difference for services working with men like you.